Hello, my name is Carla Kechichian Wakim, I’m a certified life coach and a Rapid Transformational Therapist.
Every day I Help people just like you, experiencing hard times with spouse, teen or tween because of:
Loss of love and connection
Lack of respect
I also use Rapid Transformational Therapy (RTT) to help with issues like:
Anxiety / depression
Lack of self confidence
Phobias / OCD
Fear of Public Speaking
Most people want to get help with problems they can’t fix by themselves. The alternative is let the relationship gradually come to an end, while blaming, nagging, coercing, complaining, manipulating, criticizing and withdrawing.
When you decide that enough is enough, when you say “I am not living in this pain anymore”, you can choose one of the coaching packages I have that suits you best.
I believe that the family is the place where a person flourishes, where each member tries to awaken and evoke the best in the other, supporting each other while navigating through the beautiful journey that is life until each one comes to its own flowering.
What people want is to be transformed really fast and permanently. They want to go to someone who can free them.
When you are in pain, even emotional pain, you want to be cured.
The client comes with a presenting problem:
I don’t have self confidence
My child hates me
My relationship with my husband is on the rocks
I have an addiction
I can’t find love
I have issues with money
I can’t speak in public
I have: phobias / OCD
I have suffered emotional hurt
What lies beneath all those challenges? I treat exactly that using RTT (Rapid Transformational Therapy). Everything changes in the most remarkable, powerful, profound way. I extract all the things that are causing pain to the client and send them home, empowered and happier, free of pain.
What should I expect from a session?
As the client you will work alongside your therapist (me) uncovering the meaning and interpretation of events and then changing them. It’s a two hour session, where I put you in a relaxed state so that you can access your subconscious mind. I regress you to the root cause of the issue that is bothering you. RTT draws out “unfinished business”, meaning, it is a technique for addressing the trauma or a negative belief, you have been holding onto for many years. And thus directly accessing and fixing whatever blocks may there be. You will be able to reach breakthroughs that would not be possible if you were simply trying to reach your subconscious mind via altered language and self-talk.
After transforming the negative beliefs and changing the meanings attached to any situation experienced before, using different techniques like:
Dialogue with the person that hurt you
Getting the praise, you have always wanted
Using “it’s not me” to emphasize why the client is changing.
We do the Transformation or Cure which is tailor made for each client. You cannot fix what you don’t understand and RTT works by first understanding how you got your issues and then freeing you from them for good. RTT also has a huge healing element that uses command therapy to activate the body’s ability to heal and restore itself to wellness. It’s a form of neuroplasticity as RTT creates new neural pathways in the mind while simultaneously removing of old unhelpful ones.
The family is where the parents choose to:
Love, trust, accept, welcome, encourage, support and care for each other and their children.
These words define the difference between a healthy and happy family inside out and another torn apart family where parents avoid each other and their teens turn to drugs or become depressive. I help my clients to build love and connection through the use of sincere and honest relationship skills.
I also help people to stop doing things that damage their partners and teens love for them. Some try to make their partner change by making threats to leave or by being patient. These ways don’t work because they don’t deal with the real problem. What needs to be learned is how to love the one another despite our differences and how to deal with our own and our partner’s or teens insecurities without losing our love for one another. Which means honoring differences and promoting linkages. It might seem as if all their behaviors are meant to hurt us, but believe it or not that is not the motivation behind their behavior.
So, if your husband and you are not getting along, is the answer being patient or ending the marriage? if your teenager is shutting you out, fighting with you, running with a bad crowd, or experiencing academic failure, is the answer just giving him space, or waiting patiently for those teenage years to pass? Of Course Not! Remember, you always have the choice to decide how you’re going to respond to what they do, to take responsibility, to love them enough to say “I will be the one to start the change” and learn new skills and give a mini-lifting to your couple and family.
Life is what you make of it and your situation is never permanent. Life will give you only what you ask of it! So what kind of help do you need? Is this a good moment to get off the auto-pilot? Don’t wait until you feel like it, you never will. But know that the decision you make today has everything to do with where you and your family are going to be in the coming years.
For more information and help contact me.
Live one-on-one coaching by phone or Skype (with or without cam) or in my office face to face.